I try not to share too many personal opinions about what we should do less of in design, because I never want to make you feel bad about what you like. But I will happily share what I think we should do more of.
Today I’m sharing my unpopular opinion on 5 things I want to see more of.
Ok I actually heard someone else make this comment and it made me think. Truthfully I do like a styled bookshelf with decor, artwork and vases, but when I really thought about it, I’m wildly more drawn to shelving that actually holds books. It feels lived in, acquired, and authentic opposed to styled for looks. I will always be drawn to homes that look thoughtfully collected over time.
Sarah from Room For Tuesday did an incredible job of balancing her bookshelves with mostly books and a few thoughtfully placed pieces of decor. Her tip for styling bookshelves with books: “Remove the jacket, get creative with stacking, and fill negative space with artwork and unique objects.”
By definition, eclectic style is not a home that combines a bunch of different styles into one room. Eclectic style is actually when you combine multiple styles into one object. Thank you professor from college for teaching me this. So for example, if you put a modern blue velvet fabric on a traditional Chesterfield sofa, that would be considered eclectic. If you put Art Deco drawer pulls on a primitive dresser, that is eclectic.
Eclectic design can be really hard to pinpoint in the wild which is why it’s often not even considered a style. But because it’s so unique to each home and each person’s choices, and because it doesn’t lean heavily on one specific era or trend period, it might just be the most timeless. Of course eclectic design is not for everyone, but when it’s done tastefully, it never really goes out of style.
Most likely I’ve told you to paint your walls eggshell, your ceiling flat, and your doors semi-gloss. But what about satin?
The other day I was walking through our home and I realized that I use satin nearly every time I paint. I painted our bedroom walls and ceiling planks in a satin enamel. I painted the laundry room doors satin for that delicious luster. I painted our dresser satin black and the office wainscoting satin. Truth is, I really love that subtle sheen and it makes everything I paint look a little more professionally painted. The only time I still go back for my eggshell finish is if I’m painting a plain sheet rock wall. I guess I just haven’t used sheet rock in a while.
I’ve said this before, and this is probably the most controversial opinion I have, but I’m just not a big fan of floating shelves in the kitchen, or in general. I much prefer the use of upper cabinets instead. Upper cabinets look stately. They elevate the kitchen while maintaining functionality. I think often open shelving is used as a way of decoration…to break up the monotony of all the cabinetry. But I’d argue that upper cabinetry, with beautiful doors and alluring hardware, is a more high end way of decorating your kitchen.
The one exception to my own opinion is if there’s just one single, long shelf mounted above the backsplash…then I can fully get on board with it.
If you want to break up the monotony of the cabinetry, let’s take notes from Sean Anderson’s kitchen design above! Try adding a few glass front cabinet doors or opt for counter cabinetry. Add intricate crown moulding or change up the hardware. Place an antique hutch on the counter that spans to the ceiling…the options are endless.
I am personally guilty of removing all photos from our home, but there are several beautiful ways to re-incorporate photos back into our homes.
First, make any photo black and white and it’ll fit right in with your other artwork. I think the color is often what throws us off, but if we make the photo B&W, suddenly it feels artsy.
Second, frame candid photos more than posed photos. The candid photos are the ones that pull you in to look closer…they hold more memories. The grainy iphone pic or the one where you’re not looking, those tend to be the most artsy.
And third, the smaller the better. I love a 4×6 or 5×7 B&W photograph in an antique frame (that’s key!) on a nightstand or dresser.
Ok it’s settled, I’m off to print a photo of Chris and I for my nightstand. Which opinion of mine do you want to incorporate more of in your home?
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Lovely article, thank you for sharing. We styled our home this way as I prefer a timeless, cozy, lived in feel. We are avid readers so lots of books on the bookcases with a few special items mixed in. We have a large photo wall in our dining room, all black and white photos in black frames (different but similar styles), mostly candid poses. We love a good eclectic piece that conveys character (our wingback in a funky mustard yellow fabric). And I prefer upper cabinets especially with some glass doors thrown in, but only if the cabinets go up to the ceiling. I detest how everyone cuts off the uppers and it just leaves a huge gap and tops of cabinets that have to be cleaned to not be gross (getting to old to climb up and deal with all that lol). Also, plants…not so many that it feels like a conservatory but enough to add life to the rooms. Also, loving your do and do not guides. So incredibly helpful without a lot of extra fluff reading.
Love it! Sounds like you and I have a very similar vibe 🙂
I have to disagree with your choice in paint sheens. I find people who love satin buy their paint from Sherwin Williams (which has their own standards of sheen, so satin is duller in SW than other companies), anywhere else satin is much shinier. Semi gloss on doors and trim? Way too shiny. Paint has come such a long way in the last few decades that satin is plenty durable for trim and doors.I used to work in property management and now I work in the paint world, satin will forever look rental quality in my opinion.
Yes! You described our home. I love our home to be a reflection of our family. We love reading so our beautiful bookshelves made by my husband are full of all our of our favorite books with little reminders of wonderful times tucked in…a small bottle of little seashells, a small replica of Big Ben, a small painting of the lake in Maine painted by one of my sons when he was younger, a few wooden carved elephants from our time in Africa, a rock that is in the shape of a heart from one of my sons, etc…those books and the treasured objects remind us of special times, adventures and memories. In the same vein, we love having candid photos of family and friends around our home. To me, eclectic feels lived in, collected over time, cozy and comfortable. I must try the satin paint! Blessings to you!
I much prefer books on bookshelves. My bookshelves are stuffed with books as I am a big reader and love books. I paint all my walls with a satin finish and high gloss on my woodwork.I don’t have any open shelves in my kitchen as they are just dust collectors. I have quite a few family photos on several tables in my house, they make me smile! I don’t believe I have anything eclectic, but I’ll take a look around!Love your decorating.
I agree with all of your points. My favorite was the one to fill bookshelves with books! There are many photos online of rooms with lots of shelves barely filled with just a few objects, and it looks empty and pointless to me. Maybe it’s a look I just don’t understand?
It’s all personal taste! But I do love a bookshelf that’s well loved with books 🙂
okay also what was eclectic about the pic you posted.. Green velvet on an arm chair? I love eclectic style so loved that photo!
Yes! Traditionally you wouldn’t see modern green velvet fabric on an original wingback chair which makes it a beautiful eclectic piece!
Agree with every single thing you said. Great post! Thank you, I will follow each and every piece of advice so thank you for offering it! Colleen
I’m telling ya…eclectic design is super underrated! 🙂
Is there a gentle way of getting a seemingly professional writer to stop making grammar errors? It is so simple to check if one has used "I" or "me" correctly. If the sentence is "I am off to print a photo of Chris and I…", simply drop "Chris and" out of the sentence and you can see that you would never "print a photo of I". You would print a photo "of me". So the sentence is "print a photo of Chris and me…" I do love your posts so please don’t stop. I am pretty sure I will catch some flack from your readers for this but I really am trying to help.
No flack from me! I was taught this trick over 20 years ago in school. To this day, I still use it. It’s amazing to me how many quasi-professional writers and bloggers seemingly couldn’t be bothered to utilize appropriate grammar.
Aside from that, it was a great article. The designation of what eclectic is vs. what it isn’t was a lightbulb moment for me! Thank you!
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 couldn’t agree with these statements more
Phew!! Love to hear it!